“Double minus” under the background of winter vacation, children have less homework, what should parents teach their children?
Since the implementation of China’s “double reduction” policy, the phenomenon of “roll-in” in primary and secondary education has been effectively curbed.To be specific, students’ learning burden has been significantly reduced, and schools and families have undergone great changes in the concept of educating children.For example, students at school, homework tasks in the family dropped significantly, not only liberated the students, teachers, parents have also been relaxed.Parents and friends, what do you think about this?In the context of a significant reduction in students’ academic workload, some students’ parents seem to be a little uncomfortable.For example, how to effectively manage children returning to the family during holidays?What does a child do at home without homework?Will children without homework loaf around and make trouble?Parents have such concerns are not groundless, because for a long time, parents have regarded homework tasks as the most effective grip to manage their children, once lost this grip, how can parents manage their children?In fact, this is the parents do not really understand the true meaning of the “double reduction” policy.The requirement of “double reduction” policy for the growth of students is to reduce the heavy academic burden of students and promote the all-round and harmonious development of students’ morality, intelligence, physique, aesthetics and labor.Therefore, parents should adjust the goal of training their children. Instead of taking “good grades” and “going to key universities” as the sole goal, they should start from the goal of “becoming an adult before becoming a talent”.So, in holidays, children do not have the “trusteeship class”, “cram school” of outside training institutions, returning to the family is the inevitable choice of children.How do parents educate their children when they return home?This is a very real problem facing parents.Recently, the state promulgated the implementation of the “family education promotion Law” has explicitly stipulated that parents of children’s family education responsibilities and obligations, the children’s family education is duty-bound.So, how do parents implement family education for children, what does family education teach?According to the author, students in holidays, especially winter and summer holidays, children at home for a long period of time, parents in addition to accompany their children to complete the holiday homework, focus on teaching children to learn life skills, improve children’s hands-on skills, expand children’s social practice ability.1, family education to focus on discovering children’s hands-on ability has always been, the child in the family’s “core” position unwavering, the family around the child, the child became “clothes and meals” of the “childe, princess”, and even all the children’s life activities are “arranged instead of” the parents.Do these families raise good children?(1) Which is more important, hands or brains?First of all, let’s take a look at such a phenomenon: many people have a rich imagination and speak eloquently, but actually do things, but some “exaggerated”, the ability to use their mouth is far better than the ability to do things.Some people who are not good at doing things will also be confused and at a loss.Secondly, cultivating children’s practical ability can promote the flexibility of the brain, also can let children reduce the fear of unfamiliar things, but also can expand children’s understanding of the things around, and timely find their own subtle deficiencies.Moreover, the strength of hands-on ability is directly related to the success of children to do things.Once the child has a good idea, it is necessary to start to practice, which is conducive to cultivating children’s spirit of exploration and improving their executive ability.In addition, cultivate children’s hands-on ability, is conducive to promoting the development and growth of the child’s brain, as the saying goes, “mind and dexterity” is the truth.(2) Household chores contain great wisdom to let children do some housework, let children master some basic labor skills, is the basic requirements of the future society for talents.For a long time, our parents have ignored the education of children’s housework, which is different from the concept of children’s education in many western developed countries.Nobel Prize winner Mr. Yang Zhenning once said: Chinese children are obviously not as interested in and able to do things as European and American children, mainly because they have no chance to move.Indeed, Chinese parents attach more importance to accompanying their children to study, but they are not interested in accompanying their children to do things.In fact, many parents do not understand the great wisdom of housework: first, it is conducive to the child’s self-regard is their own;Second, it is conducive to children’s temper will, edify temperament;Three is to improve children’s sense of responsibility, sense of ownership.These benefits need to be raised awareness for parents.2, family education to teach children “learn to live” children learn to live, master life skills, in order to grasp the direction of life.Have such ability, will love life.What life skills should parents focus on in family education?(1) Learn to do things learn to do things, does not refer to specific to complete a specific work, nor can be considered to teach children repeated unchanged practice methods, but should teach children to practice their own knowledge.For example: children’s communication skills, management skills, the ability to solve conflicts and problems, and the ability to cooperate with people…These abilities for the child’s future development determine the height of the child’s future development.Therefore, parents should correctly understand the “learn to do things” in family education, and cultivate children from a more developmental perspective.(2) Learn to live Today’s social life increasingly diversified characteristics, between people, there is cooperation, at the same time there is competition.Therefore, children should have the ability to “live independently”, but also learn the ability to “live together”.In family education, parents should educate their children to learn to communicate and communicate with others, learn to cooperate with others, work together, learn to think in others’ shoes, and get along well with others, so as to improve their ability to live.(3) Learn to survive in family education, an important education topic needs to be implemented, that is, children should “learn to survive”, because children’s survival ability is more important than anything else.For children’s “learn to survive” education, parents should pay attention to the connotation of three aspects: the first is to teach children to learn to protect themselves, to ensure the normal state of life;Second, learn to take care of themselves, adapt to the competitive environment, enhance social adaptability;The third is aesthetic life, improve the quality of life.(4) Learn to recognize today’s children in learning methods, parents will emphasize the children’s diligence, rote memorization, questions tactics and other traditional modes, in order to ensure that children can quickly enter the state of learning, no matter in what state, and can get good grades in the exam.In fact, the family education to teach children “learn to recognize”, its connotation is not only refers to the child to learn some knowledge, his extension is much broader, for example:Parents should teach their children the methods and skills to acquire knowledge independently, cultivate their attention, imagination, memory and so on, especially their way of thinking to solve problems. If children can be well cultivated in family education, it is crucial for their future development.At the same time, in family education to improve children’s debate, discussion, access to books, access to information and other aspects of the ability.Readers, what do you think about children’s home education?Leave a comment, discuss, and share your thoughts in the comments section.